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  • Spring: My Season of Sollace

    Spring is my season of loss. Almost every loved one I’ve lost, left in the spring. Whether it’s from death, breakups, and moving away, March through May are the months I mourn. It would be easy to hate the season where I’ve experiencedd the most pain, but I don’t. I’ve come to learn that season…

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  • Aunty Advice: Things I Tell My Nieces Because No One Told Me

    I have two nieces who are navigating the complexities of highschool. Most of us remember our teenage years as being some of the best and worst years of our lives. Hormones are raging, classes become more difficult, relationships become more complex, and adults put higher expectations on you. All of this before your brain has…

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  • Death by Algorithm and the Rise of Analogue

    I have a coworker who like to share obscure websites Useless, fun, and entertaining corners of the web, all but forgotten in the algorithm age. They’re little tastes of what the internet used to be, before it was monopolized by Google and polorized by social media. Glimpes of what the internet could be again, if…

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  • What Comes Next: Thoughts on Finishing a 1st Draft

    I finished the first draft of my first novel. It’s been a project I’ve started, stopped, and restarted several times over the last decade. Despite loving the story more than ever, I found it harder and harder to find the energy and motivation to finish the story. But at 8:30pm on December 31st, I finished…

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  • Where is Winter?

    Where is Winter?

    This month has been unseasonably warm. Usually by mid-December we’ve had a few snowfalls. Frost coats the car windshields each morning and temperatures drop below freezing until the end of March. But we’ve been enjoying lovely September weather this Christmas. I didn’t have much experience with the cold growing up. Living in the Texas coastal…

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  • Worrying Less

    Worrying Less

    I could worry less. I feel that’s the case for most people right now. Even people without pre-existing anxiety disorders are gripped by constant stress and concern: “How is the economy doing?” “Is AI going to take my job?” “What if I get laid off?” “Is the United States still a safe place for me…

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  • Lifesaving Companionship: Why Pets Save Lives

    I adopted my pet when I was 24. We always had family pets growing up, but Aspasia is the first pet I can truly call mine. She came into my life when I was at my lowest, when my depression was evolving into a mixed-manic episode that would push me past the edge of sanity.…

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  • Generations of History

    Generations of History

    For the last 25 years, we have experienced non-stop “historical events”. We had short period of hope from 2010 – 2015, when it looked like things might get better. The economy finally appeared to be recovering, and the LGBTQ community finally got the rights they deserved, but the election of 2016 brought that crashing down.…

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  • The Neverending Story: Why My Novel is Never Done

    I started working on my novel again. It’s a project that I pick-up and put down so often that I can’t even remember when I first started. Inspiration comes in waves, and it’s easier to find excuses than it is to find motivation. So, year after year, I tell myself that I’ll finish the first…

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  • Dreams, Perspective, and Life

    Dreams, Perspective, and Life

    There are ancient ruins across the street. I can see Porta Nigra from my room. As I write this, I am sitting in the open window, sipping a cup of coffee while my laundry dries in the open air. Tourists walk under the gray stone arches onto a bustling street. A scene so different from…

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